Nietzschean Forgetting
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Nietzschean Forgetting is the idea that sometimes, to create something new and live fully, you need to stop carrying your pain around on the inside — not by pretending it never happened, but by letting it become something outside of you that you can walk alongside rather than being trapped in.
Definition
Nietzschean Forgetting, as it appears in this corpus, designates a specific psychic operation — distinct from repression, forgiveness, or simple erasure — that functions as the condition of possibility for creative and vital existence. It is not the suppression of traumatic content into the unconscious (repression), nor the symbolic resolution of injury (forgiveness), but rather the establishment of what Ruti calls a "horizon": a clearing of psychic space that allows the subject to live next to rather than within the wound. In this register, forgetting is not passive amnesia but an active, productive void — a structural gap that makes new experience possible by preventing the traumatic encounter from collapsing into total, colonizing presence.
Zupančič's reading sharpens this considerably by insisting that Nietzschean oblivion is not an effacement of the traumatic encounter but, paradoxically, a preservation of its externality — its foreignness, its otherness. On this account, forgetting does not neutralize the Real dimension of the encounter but holds it at arm's length as genuinely Other, as something that has not been domesticated into the subject's symbolic economy. This makes Nietzschean Forgetting structurally allied with the act rather than with defense: it is less a closure of the wound than the effect of a surplus passion — co-originary with guilt and enjoyment — that orients the subject toward life rather than toward the repetitive circuit of the traumatic kernel. The concept thus navigates between the Freudian compulsion to repeat (where the encounter is neither forgotten nor dissolved) and the Lacanian elaboration of the Real as what always returns to the same place, proposing forgetting as a mode of displacing that return without canceling its trace.
Place in the corpus
In mari-ruti-penis-envy-and-other-bad-feelings-the-emotional-costs-of-everyday-life, Nietzschean Forgetting is introduced to reconcile Nietzschean vitalism with the Freudian talking cure: both are shown to aim at externalizing injury rather than interiorizing or repeating it. Here the concept functions as a specification of how the subject negotiates Trauma — rather than being constituted as the trauma (the most radical Lacanian position), the subject is offered a practical path of living beside it. This is an extension and mild softening of the Lacanian account of Trauma as a "missed encounter" that always returns, carving out a space where the subject's creative vitality is not infinitely deferred by the compulsion to Repeat.
In the-shortest-shadow-nietzsche-alenka-zupancic, Zupančič positions Nietzschean Forgetting at the intersection of Jouissance, Lack, and the act. Because it preserves the foreignness of the traumatic encounter rather than assimilating it symbolically, it is structurally related to what Lacan designates as the Real: Lack is not filled, and the object's otherness is not converted into familiar symbolic currency. Crucially, Zupančič aligns forgetting with a surplus passion co-originary with guilt, echoing the Lacanian insight that Jouissance and the Law are co-constitutive rather than sequentially related. In this sense, Nietzschean Forgetting is neither a defense against the Real (which would align it with Anxiety management) nor its full confrontation (which would align it with the analytic act), but a distinctive third position: a mode of relating to the traumatic encounter that preserves its Otherness while releasing the subject toward new articulations of desire and Sublimation.
Key formulations
The Shortest Shadow: Nietzsche's Philosophy of the Two (p.62)
Nietzschean oblivion is not so much an effacement of the traumatic encounter as a preservation of its external character, of its foreignness, of its otherness.
The phrase "preservation of its external character" is theoretically loaded because it repositions forgetting from an act of erasure to a structural operation that maintains the Real's extimacy — keeping the traumatic encounter as genuinely Other rather than introjected or symbolized. The terms "foreignness" and "otherness" invoke the Lacanian distinction between what is assimilated into the subject's symbolic economy and what persists as irreducibly Real, making this formulation a precise intervention against any reading of forgetting as simple repression or psychological resolution.
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Where it appears in the corpus (1)
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The Shortest Shadow: Nietzsche's Philosophy of the Two · Alenka Zupančič · p.62
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Theoretical move: Zupančič reads Nietzsche to argue that guilt and surplus-enjoyment are co-originary articulations of immeasurability rather than causal sequence, and that "forgetting" (as distinct from repression or forgiveness) is the condition of possibility for the act, since it is not a prior closure but the effect of a surplus passion that opens us toward life.
Nietzschean oblivion is not so much an effacement of the traumatic encounter as a preservation of its external character, of its foreignness, of its otherness.