Paralipsis
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Paralipsis is when someone says "I won't even mention how badly you messed up" — and by saying that, they've just mentioned it. Lacan would say this slip-like move isn't just a clever rhetorical trick; it's actually the same structure as how our unconscious sneaks things into our speech that our conscious mind is trying to keep quiet.
Definition
Paralipsis, as theorized in the McCormick source, is a rhetorical figure that operates by announcing the very thing it refuses to announce — the speaker says "I will not speak of X" and thereby speaks of X. What makes this device theoretically significant within a Lacanian frame is that its structure is not merely a stylistic paradox but a formal homology to the structure of the unconscious itself. The double-negative movement of paralipsis — the simultaneous assertion and denial, the saying that is a not-saying — maps directly onto the Freudian Verneinung (negation/denial), in which repressed material surfaces in conscious discourse under the sign of its own disavowal. In this sense, paralipsis is not simply a trick of rhetoric but a demonstrable site where unconscious conflict inscribes itself in the surface grammar of speech.
The passage anchors this homology in Lacan's analysis of the French expletive ne — a particle that technically negates but that speakers use without fully intending negation (e.g., "je crains qu'il ne vienne," meaning "I fear he will come"). For Lacan, this expletive ne is a trace of the subject of the unconscious breaking into the ego's discourse, a linguistic crack through which the split subject becomes visible. Paralipsis thus functions as the rhetorical macrostructure of what the expletive ne instantiates at the level of the morpheme: the ego's discourse is interrupted by what it cannot say directly, and what cannot be said directly is said obliquely, through its own refusal.
Place in the corpus
Within samuel-mccormick-the-chattering-mind-a-conceptual-history-of-everyday-talk-unive, paralipsis serves as a bridging concept between rhetorical analysis of everyday speech and Lacanian psychoanalytic theory. Its single occurrence positions it at the intersection of several canonical concepts. Most directly, it extends the concept of Negation: just as Freudian Verneinung allows repressed content to surface through denial, paralipsis allows unspeakable content to be articulated through the performance of its refusal. The structure is identical — avowal through disavowal — making paralipsis the rhetorical embodiment of negation's psychoanalytic function. It equally implicates the Ego: the ego's organized, conscious discourse is the surface that paralipsis inhabits and disrupts; the figure marks the precise moment where the ego's self-presentation is undermined by what it cannot contain, recalling Lacan's formula that the ego-to-ego axis is what the symbolic unconscious must traverse and interrupt.
The concept also resonates with the Splitting of the Subject and the Unconscious: paralipsis is, structurally, the split subject in action — the subject of the enunciation (what is actually communicated) diverges from the subject of the statement (what is formally claimed), which is precisely the topology of the barred subject ($). Finally, the connection to Tuché is more oblique but discernible: just as tuché names the missed encounter with the Real that nonetheless leaves a mark, paralipsis stages a missed saying — the content is never quite said directly, yet its trace persists. The concept is best read as a specification and rhetorical illustration of negation and the splitting of the subject, grounding abstract psychoanalytic structures in the observable surface of ordinary speech.
Key formulations
The Chattering Mind: A Conceptual History of Everyday Talk (p.288)
The Greeks had a word for talk of this sort: paralipsis. As a rhetorical device, paralipsis allows speakers to mention something by refusing to mention it.
The phrase "mention something by refusing to mention it" is theoretically loaded because it condenses the structure of Freudian Verneinung into a single rhetorical definition: the act of refusal is simultaneously the act of disclosure, enacting the very split between the subject of the statement and the subject of enunciation that Lacan identifies as constitutive of the unconscious in speech.
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Where it appears in the corpus (1)
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The Chattering Mind: A Conceptual History of Everyday Talk · Samuel McCormick · p.288
A Play of Props > *Paralipsis*
Theoretical move: The passage uses the rhetorical figure of *paralipsis* — saying something by refusing to say it — as a hinge between rhetorical analysis and psychoanalytic theory, arguing that the structure of paralipsis (the double negative, the ego's discourse interrupted by the unconscious) is homologous to Lacan's account of the French expletive *ne*, thereby showing how unconscious conflict inscribes itself in the surface of speech.
The Greeks had a word for talk of this sort: paralipsis. As a rhetorical device, paralipsis allows speakers to mention something by refusing to mention it.